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EP 79: Learning To Love Each Other Better

July 11, 2024

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Sex and relationship coach. Host of the top-rated podcast Sex, Love & Everything In Between. And biiiggg believer that you shouldn’t ever deprive yourself of the deep depth of your turn on. 
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Ignite Your Intimacy

Meg and Jacob O’Neill dive into why knowing each other’s love language isn’t enough. They share how staying curious about each other’s needs and desires creates a foundation for a strong, long-lasting relationship filled with intimacy and closeness.

Meg and Jacob discuss their experiences with long-distance love, gender roles, and the power of open communication. They reveal how small acts, like understanding your partner’s favorite meal or how they prefer things organized, can significantly enhance your connection. It’s about truly listening and valuing each other’s unique preferences.

Through stories of tackling household chores and cooking, they show how stepping out of comfort zones and encouraging each other’s growth deepens their bond. Jacob learns to let go of control, while Meg finds new ways to show appreciation.

Meg and Jacob also challenge the idea of rigid formulas in relationships, advocating for flexible frameworks that allow for growth and change. They emphasize attunement, presence, and living in the moment to foster deep connections.

They also riff off on:

  • Meg O’Neill discusses her experience mowing the lawn for the first time, despite never having done it before.
  • Jacob O’Neill acknowledges his control issues, admitting he’s a “little bit of a control freak” and learning to surrender some control in relationships.
  • They share stories about their upbringing and how it has influenced their attitudes towards cleanliness and organization.
  • Meg feels undermined by Jacob’s constant redoing of her work, leading her to feel like she can’t do anything right and that it’s not worth trying.
  • Jacob and Meg discuss food preferences and cooking styles, with Jacob preferring simple dishes like steak and vegetables.
  • Meg O’Neill highlights the danger of relying too heavily on labels and formulas in relationships, and instead advocates for attunement and presence.
  • and many more.

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Hello my love
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I’m Meg O’Neill 

I used to withhold my desires, truth, and voice. At work. In my relationships. In all moments when that little voice of society came into my ear to whisper: “you have to stay small: no one likes a woman who is loud or chaotic or a whore.” 

Then, for just a moment, I wondered what it would be like to own my needs. To ask for what I want. To receive pleasure from my partner the way I want. To be fully ALIVE. 

Nearly a decade later, I’ve coached 700+ women to a deeper state of ALIVE-ness. Founded the Full Spectrum Woman program. And co-host a podcast for women and couples who refuse to silence the desires raging inside.